Soul-filled Cafe ~ Soul-filled You

Hey Everyone. Delighted to be here. Send me your juicy questions about life, business and living an inspired life.

Hi Wendy – as someone who has read ‘The Secret’ and who is self-educated to a tolerable degree about quantum science I have had a growing concern about manifestation. I believe it is impossible for anyone to consciously manifest anything good unless they believe, right at the core, that they are worth it. It seems to me that adequate preparation is necessary before manifesting; preparation that relinquishes unconscious guilt and low self esteem. Does this sound reasonable to you?

Please excuse any duplication – am unsure if I need to post here or reply to your comment. So I had better post in both places!

My question –

Hi Wendy – as someone who has read ‘The Secret’ and who is self-educated to a tolerable degree about quantum science I have had a growing concern about manifestation. I believe it is impossible for anyone to consciously manifest anything good unless they believe, right at the core, that they are worth it. It seems to me that adequate preparation is necessary before manifesting; preparation that relinquishes unconscious guilt and low self esteem. Does this sound reasonable to you?

Wendy — so delighted to have you with us today!!
You feel like a “soul sister” to me and I have loved getting to know you and amazing work you are manifesting in the world.

You are the first “Brit” to be featured at the cafe as well. Love having the UK represented today. (That was some wedding last week by the way…you all know how to create a royal wedding for the world to watch)

OK– looking forward to you shining your brilliance today.

Hi, Wendy,

It’s always so fun to see who Heather brings in to her Soul-Filled Cafe…and I am delighted to learn more about you and what you do, Wendy.

Your personal story is so amazing. And what a wonderful reminder that we are connected to something much bigger than we will ever know.

Where do you think is a good place to start if someone wants to break through their limitations and step more into their personal power?

Thanks, and looking forward to reading these posts today!

Warmly,
Sue

Hi Larry,
Posting your comment this way is best as it starts a new conversation stream that Wendy can respond to. Once she responds
you can use the “reply” to keep the conversation going.

And if you want to reply to others comments, then the reply is perfect for that (like I am doing here).

Hope that is clear.

Thanks for being here and your great question.

Always great to see you here Sue!

Wendy — I have a question for you. You mention tapping into Universal spirit to expand our awareness and how it led to your “aha” awareness about abundance and being.

I totally believe in this too — the need to tap into spirit and I also believe that the universe is all about abundance (and that we cut ourselves off with our limiting beliefs).

However I also believe that going for abundance in terms of the “stuff” and the “shiny objects” can be a mistake and lead us up illusory ladders where when we get to the top we realize “oh, this is just more of the same” or “why aren’t I happy now that I have the house and the 3 car garage”– and often what the universe needs us to do is ask is more “noble questions” — like “How can I be an even better source of love” (vs. how can I “get that relationship”) or “How can I be of better service to my clients” (vs. how can I make six figures this year)

Any thoughts on that.

Larry — you are also our BIG prize winner. (woot!)

This is something brand new we are doing at the cafe. The first person who posts a question for our featured guest gets their pick of an I-tunes song. Let me know what itunes song you would like — and what email to send it too.

Hi Wendy,
what modalities and techniques have you used successfully to clear out the subconscious of all the gunk?

Heather, you absolute sweetie! If I may have:

La Wally by Wilhelmenia Fernandez, Alfredo Catalani, London Symphony Orchestra and Vladimir Cosma

That would be wonderful. I have found it on itunes and that is the full title of the artist(s).

I look forward to hearing it again after twenty years! And Thank You!

whoops: larryfroot@hotmail.com

Hi Heather,
I agree that ‘stuff’ doesn’t make you happy. We all know of rich people who are miserable and lead a far from ‘soul filled’ life.
I was talking to someone yesterday about the abundance of the universe and it made me reaise that a better word to describe it is ‘limitless potential’. This divine state of energy that creates all things manifest.
We truly are creative beings and we do this with our thoughts. Right now we as many people as possible to wake up to this latent potential and raise the energy on the planet for everyone.
Always focus on service and bringing more to people but also know that you have the divine right to receive as well.
Money and things can create great experiences

Great! Sounds like a nice song.

Will send your way.

I’ve written your email down –in case you want to delete the comment that shows it above.

Hi Sue,

I think a great place to start is to simply start believing in something greater than you..greater than the self. Invite this connection to you and keep your eyes open.
The universe does indeed work in mysterious and wonderful ways.
Connecting with this loving energy brings peace and allows the melting of the limitiations.
Acceptance is the key to seeing limitations. When you are able to see yourself with loving eyes and have no judgement of right or wrong then you are able to see with clarity that which is holding you back.
Listen to your body. Your physcial body reveals your hidden thoughts to you. As you start to feel uncomfortable just listen and breathe rather than judge or try and get rid of it. Silence is golden and in stillness there is great peace.
Does that make sense?
Lots of love

I whole heartedly agree Larry. Any unworthyness means we are unconsciously saying no to the gifts of the divine and won’t let ourselves receive.
I am reminded of that quote from The Science of Getting Rich ‘The universe is more keen to give you what you want than you are to get it’.
The way to dissolve low self esteem is to realise who you really are and experience the love of the divine.
In the loving presence we are all perfect. How can we not be.
I think it’s time for all of us to allow life’s old stories (they are eons old) to dissolve. x

Hi Jen,
I use the body alot and see myself as energy rather than solid. lol. I better explain that. Once you start having an awareness of yourself as energy you can begin to observe this rather than the chattering mind.
It’s the mind that keeps us stuck in it’s perpetual stories and boy when it takes hold it really goes for it doesn’t it.
You can also take a step back and just watch the mind without buying into it’s stories.
Oneness Blessing was a God send for me…quite literally. It’s a chanelling of energy that quietens the mind and opens the divinity within us. It’s beautiful. Have you heard of it?
Does that make sense seeing yourself as energy rather than your mind?

Hey Heather,
The wedding was great. I think the main curiosity was the dress..usual

Fabulous to be the first Brit to grace this cafe.

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Thank you Wendy – I recently came across the use of the word ‘relinquish’ and it seems to me a lovely way to describe releasing those stories. So often the language around transformation can be militaristic. We think that we need to ‘overthrow’ the ego, ‘beat’ our negativity, ‘vanquish’ our fears. But the ego is found in the angst & conflict that such language inspires. Dissolve, relinquish, release – what lovely meanings when we compare the lexicon of the ego!

I agree. The language we use is so important as is the way we do it. There is nothing to get rid of, nothing to over throw or fight! This is all part of the eternal struggle that persists in going on and on and on
Surrender is the only way. To fully accept what is in life. The physical world is one of duality, of opposites, yin and yang. The opposites are life but I love the simplicity of melting that happens as we expand, a natural melting into more love, joy and bliss.
Often easier said than done lol. The mind has a firm grip at times.
Lovely to connect with you Larry. Enjoy your music

Hi Wendy! I am delighted to meet you and look forward to reading more about you (in your book, online, etc). Curious from your video on “the universe is abundant” – what does that word mean to you? I feel it, yet can’t quite explain it to others. – Laura

Hi Laura,
I was reflecting on the word abundant and think a better description is ‘limitless potential’. The universe is the origination of all things material. This pulsating energy that we can tune into.
It’s joy is creation, which I guess translates in the physical world as human experience.
Does that resonate with what you feel? It’s so hard to explain cosmic experiences because we instantly become limited by the words and limits of what the mind can conceive.
I love that you feel it. That’s what it’s all about.
Great to meet you Laura.

Yes, Wendy – that resonates! Possibility, creation, potential… I came closest to feeling “it” on a silent retreat I took a few years back. I almost didn’t want to “come back” as it felt so good to not have to limit or define that feeling in words.

That resonates with me It is in the silence that we experience ‘it’. What a gift.
Thank you so much for sharing with me.

Night all. I’m off to bed because it’s nearly midnight here.
Thanks to everyone. Have fun and be you.
Lots of Love x

Thanks for spending the day with us Wendy and for your uplifting video!

Look forward to playing with you more soon.

~H.

I really like when you said, “fill yourself with your soul.” Allowing our souls to come alive is an amazing part of being alive. Good luck with your endeavors.
Colette (www.colettelafia.com)